Episode 70
The Evolution Of Star Monroe. Confident, Unbothered & Exclusive - 70
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Scroll back 5 years (2018). I had completely lost my identity. I used to sit at home, snuggled deeply into my armchair watching endless boxsets. Because I was scared.
What was I scared of?
Scared that my dreams and desires were never to be realised.
Scared that I had lost who I was.
Scared that inspiration, motivation was never to find me ever again.
Scared that I was stuck in an unhappy marriage with my husband dictating where our life was going.
Scared to even get in my car and drive down the road.
And you know what this did to me?
I shrunk myself smaller and smaller.
I hid away from the world.
Isolated myself from my friends and family.
Feeling this deep sense of shame.
And I let it fester inside me until it ran through my bloodstream and I believed I was no longer worthy of anything.
UNTIL...
UNTIL that day. I remember it clearly.
My (then) husband and I had just had another humongous row. We were in my kitchen. And I stomped off and sat at my computer.
I said to myself..... THIS CAN'T BE IT.
This CAN NOT BE MY LIFE.
And you know what I did?
I booked an extended trip to Bali. So I could a) train to be a yoga instructor b) get my travel on (cos I've always wanted to travel more.
When I told my husband he stared incredulously at me and said these words...
"How the hell are you going to make this happen, you have no money"
And I replied....
"I WILL FIND A WAY"
And I did.
I worked my ass off that year (and to be honest I haven't stopped working my ass off since 2018).
I became DEVOTED to myself and my dreams.
I stopped worrying about the HOW and started focusing on what I needed to do each and every single way.
I stepped into the identity of a woman who was going places, who believed in herself (however shaky that was at the time) and I MADE SHIT HAPPEN.
I saved more than enough money for this trip.
And I got on a plane in November 2018 and flew to Bali.
Now, between you and I, I hated the yoga training and knew somewhere deep inside me that being a yoga instructor was not for me. YET, during this trip I DISCOVERED WHO I WAS AGAIN.
I met some wonderful, happy people and I found myself laughing, and having fun. MORE than that, my imagination woke up and I started to welcome my dreams and desires back into my world.
I do believe one of the most poignant moments of that yoga training was when I woke up from a meditation and realised I had to divorce my husband. (Psst..It took another couple of years for me to action this download. Hey, it takes as long as it takes).
When I returned from this trip I MADE MYSELF A PROMISE.
And that PROMISE was to get out of my comfort zone each and every single day in 2019.
Boy! Was that challenging. It really pushed me out of my comfort zone again and again.
And in the process of getting out of my comfort zone and developing my DEVOTION to myself and my dreams I opened up my membership for midlife women. I started to work privately with many women and I cultivated a solid presence online as one of the GO-TO experts in the midlife arena guiding women back home to themselves and their power.
Fast-forward to today. I have fully taken the reins to my life. I have continued to grow and expand (our true nature is evolution, we are not meant to stay the same), I have moved countries, become more savvy with money, and continue to ask myself the question "how can I best serve others in this one and glorious life of mine?"
And that leads me to where I am today. On the cusp of another deep evolution of myself and the work I'm here to do.
After working with 1000's upon 1000's of women over the years I have come to the realisation that what gets in women's way of their GREATNESS, their BRILLIANCE is...
THE WAY THEY SEE THEMSELVES.
THEIR SELF-IDENTITY.
Everything and I mean everything stems from your current identity. From the thoughts that bounce around in your brain, the words you speak (you do that words are spells don't you?) the choices you make and the habits you do over and over again.
When a woman is OPEN-MINDED and OPEN-HEARTED and is more than willing to STOP being so stubborn that the way she is currently living her life is the only way.....
HUGE SHIFTS will happen.
She will finally GET OUT OF HER OWN WAY and align herself with her inherent worth and brilliance.
This is why I do what I do.
I'm here to LEAD and GUIDE midlife women into their MAIN CHARACTER ERA. And embody the traits of a HIGH-VALUE WOMAN. Confident, unbothered & exclusive.
This is the identity that will open doors to opportunities, possibilities, change how you show up with yourself, your body, your mind, relationships, money, business/career and how you view yourself as an older woman.
It is the secret key to YOU living the life you've always dreamt about but never had the mammaries to do so before now.
As always I am here leading a revolution of spirited, intelligent and determined women who no longer want to settle for scraps in life but are ready to RAINED DOWN ON WITH BLESSINGS AND PROSPERITY in all areas of their lives.
If this speaks to you, then I would love to have you join me.
Right now there are three ways we can work together.
- Rebirth. Elite 3/6 month coaching & therapy packages for the midlife woman who is ready for her radical self-reinvention.
- Your Instant Confidence Boost. A one-off 90 minute consultation that will give you the potent tools and skills to take action NOW and move through any limiting beliefs and challenges (so you can get on LIVING your flamboyant life).
- Download my mini program - Midlife Reset. A 7-day program teaching you how to establish mini daily practices (a hallmark of my methodology) that will amplify your confidence, clarity and energy.
And, as we sashay into 2024, prepare to witness the unveiling of YOUR ULTIMATE MIDLIFE GLOW UP – a transformative experience like no other. Drawing from my 34 years of expertise as a psychotherapist, life coach, showgirl, and a master of personal reinvention, I have crafted an extraordinary 12-month journey. This program is meticulously designed to mentor, guide, and shape you into the epitome of a woman who embodies confidence, remains unbothered by external influences, and exudes exclusivity. Get ready to embark on this epic adventure and emerge as the High-Value Woman you are destined to be.
As one of my private clients said to me the other day "Trust Star, and go for it. This is one of the best therapy/coaching programs I have ever done (and I've done a lot). Star is to the point, she helps you take intentional action over and over again. She is so authentic and open to work with, I could not help but radically reinvent myself (from lost & alone to powerfully believing in myself & my abilities) " Silvia Alongi.
Star Monroe is a midlife psychotherapist & confidence catalyst guiding you into your Main Character Era. Confident, Unbothered & Exclusive.